It’s been a long time since I’ve done a video blog, and that’s because nothing has lit a fire of inspiration under my ass like the Evi by Aneros. This HANDS-FREE kegel exerciser is hands down the best non-vibrating sex toy I’ve ever tried, especially because you don’t needs hands to use it. The shape rocks, literally, and it’s never been easier for me to understand just how to work my pelvic floor muscles than when Evi is inside me.
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As I walked through the valley of the shadow of Los Angeles, flip camera in hand, I decided to think my thoughts out loud and record them as this week’s sex review. While being single isn’t a product, there are a lot of services out there to help people not be single anymore (think online dating sites, matchmakers, life coaches, therapists). The truth is, some people prefer being single, and some don’t. So, as a professional sex educator, I decided to post a personal review of how I feel (right now) about being single.
Watch my video: On Being Single
Sure there’s a pro and con list for being single, and being partnered, but I know that I get more done, feel more accomplished, and inspired when I’m part of a team. I once worked with a radio host, we’ll call him Lionel, who said there was no we in Lionel (there isn’t, only an I) and maybe after an aborted partnership that ended later in life, or after children, I understand (more) the single life and why it’s a preference. I once dated a guy who said my biggest drawback was that I “needed” love. Who doesn’t need love? If you think about the best art, work, stories, songs, even those where one person gets all the credit, the truth is, they never did it alone. Nobody does their best work alone, or is inspired to do their best work, alone.
There is research to back up the idea that happily married people live longer and stay healthier. I know the same can’t be said for the unhappily married, but I’d rather be single than be in the wrong, long relationship, but to quote Sebastian the crab from the Little Mermaid, “the seaweed is always greener in somebody else’s lake.”
If you want to read even more, check out For Better: The Science of a Good Marriage.
Posted by Jamye | 2 commentsA few years back two men, armed with cameras, lighting and sound came to my house to interview me on a subject I know much about, and love even more. If you’ve ever read my blog, or my book
, you know what “that” is, and if not, I’m talking about what Jack and Jill do to get off when they’re not up that hill together.
Jacking off. Jilling off. Get it? I’m talking about masturbation.
I love masturbation. It relieves stress, tension, even allergies. It boosts self-esteem, helps us get to know our bodies, and even has anti-aging properties, the kind that may not be proven by science, but that can be seen in the faces of masturbation activists. If you need more proof on this anti-aging thing, have a look at Betty Dodson (she’s over 80).
I’m honored to be part of a documentary that includes Dr. Joycelyn Elders and Janeane Garofalo (and yes, I’ll bend down and pick up those names I’ve dropped, thank you). They’re just two of the army of the sexually educated who continue to bring attention to a topic of personal interest. A topic that you may not still think is taboo, but kind-of, sort-of, it is. If you don’t believe me, just look at the hype that surrounded “Gossip Girl” Taylor Momsen’s admission last year that her vibrator is more important than a boyfriend right now. If you haven’t seen the trailer yet, watch it. The movie still needs funds to get finished, and it deserves to be seen. And if you can, donate to Sticky.
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I love music. To dance to, to hoop to, to listen to, so my only question about the Freestyle rechargeable, wireless vibrator from OhMiBod is why did it take me so long to review this?! This one-of-a-kind vibrator gets you off TO your music, and WITH your music because it plugs into your MP3 player to work with the sounds you want to hear. The peeps (and I love the peeps) behind OhMiBod thought of everything, from traveling with your toy, to how to listen, to the 8 various ways you can enjoy this rechargeable vibe.
The Freestyle brings music to the nexxxt level and who can’t jive with that?!
Buy the Freestyle at Good Vibes, Babeland or Fascinations.
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