So Last Week 135

There’s lots of celebrity in this week’s So Last Week. Anderson Cooper is gay. Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes divorce. John Travolta is sued. Plus sex scandals in the air force and why you’re not married yet. It’s all sex news you may have missed.

So last week. City Hall celebrates same sex marriage. Anderson Cooper comes out. Hot or not, who decides?
  • Sex scandals won’t fly at Texas Air Force base. (MSNBC)
  • In New York State it’s not slanderous to call someone gay, but it can still be insulting. (NYT)
  • Anderson Cooper is gay. In his own words. (TheDailyBeast)
  • New research reveals men age but their testosterone levels don’t have to.  (TheAtlantic)
  • Unwed parents are normally poor. (HarvardMagazine)
  • You’re angry. You’re a liar. A new book points out some of the reasons why she’s not married yet. (Boston)
  • Who makes more noise in bed? (FemaleFirst)
  • Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes don’t want to pretend any longer. (WashingtonPost)
  • Speaking of cruise, John Travolta is accused of inappropriate sexual misconduct aboard a ship. (MSNBC)
  • Porn causes severe, exploding headaches in one man. The solution seems obvious - stop watching porn. (Gawker)

An Intelligent Review of SmartBalls

My intern Tizzy Wall reviewed Fun Factory‘s Teneo Duo Smartballs. She’s intelligent, investigative and thorough in her research. Watch her review below or click here:

Then, to learn more about your kegels, read me! me! me! on Cafemom.

After all that, get excited because you can buy SmartBalls at Good Vibes (although they’re not the ones that she used in the video) or buy these same Teneo Duo balls on Amazon or at Babeland. Don’t forget the lube!

So Last Week 134

There’s loads of video in this week’s So Last Week. The man with 100 lb. scrotum. Octomom’s solo debut. Jerry Sandusky is going to jail. Catholic priests covering up under the covers. And a case for marriage. It’s all sex news you may have missed.

SF Pride 2012. Photo credit: bhautik joshi
  • Jerry Sandusky guilty verdict receives thunderous applause outside the courtroom.  (USAToday)
  • Man with 100 lb. scrotum swings his way to fame. (LasVegasJournalReview)
  • Catholic priests covering up under the covers. (Philly)
  • Can love, without marriage, really keep you together? (NYT)
  • Seattle Pride gets ugly. (TheStranger)
  • 31 Ways to Know if You’re in the Right Relationship. (HuffPo)
  • Clown porn pioneer Hollie Stevens receives terminal diagnosis and unconditional love. (SFWeekly)
  • Octomom goes solo in her xxx debut. (Enstarz)
  • Actors Shia LeBoeuf and Denna Thomsen do Sigur Ros. A video about sex, love, naked bits and more. Boring? Beautiful? You decide.  (E!Online)
  • The obscenely ridiculous - or do you call it romantic? - wedding proposal in Bryant Park. (YouTube)

So Last Week 133

In this week’s sex news you may have missed. Vagina. Breasts. General Mills and same-sex marriage. The 5 R’s of Dating. Retrograde Ejaculation, Dry Orgasms and things you may not about his O. It’s all so last week!

  • “What she said was so offensive, I don’t even want to say it in front of women. I would not say that in mixed company.” What she said hailed from the mouth of Lisa Brown on the Michigan house floor. It was one magical and mystifying word. Vagina. (NPR)
  • The wonder of breasts. (Guardian)
  • General Mills must be evil if they’re all for the gays marrying. Whatever. (SFGate)
  • 5th grader Kameron Slade on why same-sex marriage should not be a problem. Otherwise known as “duh.” (HuffPo)
  • On the difference between sexual harassment and unwanted sexual attention. (SexualIntelligence)
  • Dry orgasms, Retrograde ejaculation and other things you may not know about his O. (TheFrisky)
  • “Do you think the porn-related suffixes would help make the .com domain porn-free or are separate domains for porn unnecessary?” Read the post and take the poll. (Mashable)
  • Penguins waddle way out of the closet. (Fox)
  • Tick tock. Another reason the male biological clock gets better with age. (Jezebel)
  • The 5 R’s of First Dates. Video advice from Tamara Duricka Johnson, author of 31 Dates in 31 Days. (WPIX)

Hot Sox: My Kinky Intern

photo credit: Katie Hogan

Please posting delay, this went up last week on itunes. It’s the latest Hot Sox podcast! Featuring domination, submission and cock and ball torture, oh my! Meet my new intern - professional dominatrix and writer Tizzy Wall and listen to her wax poetic about being a mistress, slut shaming, ball parachutes and what red, yellow and green mean when it comes to playing kinky.

Listen on my site or via itunes.

You can also watch my review of the cock-lock, aka the CB-6000.

So Last Week 132

In this week’s So Last Week, Fetlife‘s history of (dealing with) abuse. At what age does marriage become a good thing? The silicone breast implant turns 50 and a delicate procedure removes a cock ring, 36 hours later. It’s all sex news you may have missed.

  • A BDSM blacklist. Fetlife won’t name names when it comes to kinky abuses. (Salon)
  • Is marriage before 25 a good thing? I have so been talking about this for a decade. Seriously. (HuffPo)
  • Some of the world’s weirdest online dating profiles do actually help me feel better about myself (and the men who contact me on online dating sites). (DailyMail)
  • If feeling guilty about eating meat turns you on, then Peta’s got a new .xxx site for you. (Slate)
  • Five women/gender warriors who are redefining your sex life. (Shewired)
  • One perky grandma celebrates 50 years of breast implants. (DailyNews)
  • 36 hours later, calling it a “delicate procedure,” fire crews remove a “sex aid” from a 69-year-old man’s body. (MenMedia)
  • A three-way leaves a police officer dead and a wife $3 million richer. Did I mention he wasn’t having sex with his wife when he died? (Digtriad)
  • Check out JC Penney’s awesome father’s day ad. (Upworthy)
  • Bethenny Frankel’s new talk show is guaranteed to talk about sex! sex! sex! (Hollywood)

Special thanks this week to Tizzy Wall!

Sex! Relationships! Summer Sizzle Series!

I first met Deborah Kagan while living in LA. She creates sacred, sensual interiors for people to live and love in. For me, it was an instant connection and if you’ve ever been in a room with Deborah, you know what I mean. For those who know me, and know that I like sparkle, all I can say is Deborah sparkles too. And ever since I’ve known her she’s been moving and shaking and shaking and baking (is shake and bake even still around…answer…yes) and making things happen.

I’m honored to be a part of her latest project, the Sensually Empowered Woman Summer Sizzle Interview Series! It’s a four day series taught by 10 experts designed to give you practical information and easy, effective tips so that you have the tools and permission to thrive in your relationships and s.e.x life.

It’s all being put together under one virtual roof during the week of June 4-7th.  It’s four days of raw, no holds barred, top relationship and s.e.x advice dished out by myself and other experts in the field.

Best part…it’s free!

What’s next? It’s time to sign up here to reserve your complimentary spot. (My class on self-love is on June 7th at 1pm PST, but you don’t want to miss any of the amazing speakers including my friends Barbara Carrellas, Amy Jo Goddard, Reid Mihalko and Ali Binazir.

Lets us stoke your fire, poke your brain and pop your cherry.  Personally, I can’t think of a better way to kick off summer!

Hot Sox: The Ultimate Gentleman Experience

Nick and Ash. Just a few of Garren James Cowboys4Angels

In this week’s Hot Sox podcast, I talk with Garren James, the CEO of Cowboys4Angels, a male escort service catering to straight women who are looking for a no BS way of enjoying the company of a fine man. The site doesn’t offer sex as a service, but it’s uhm….not unlikely that his men can’t service you (like the double negatives). This goes for women and couples into cuckolding. Or even couples not into cuckolding. The point is, Garren James is a businessman providing the ultimate gentleman experience. Hear how Tyra Banks helped make him who he is today, and why ladies love him…and his cowboys.

Just a gigolo? Oh no…

Listen on my site here or via itunes.

Watch Garren on the Tyra Banks Show here.


So Last Week 130

In this week’s So Last Week, Sex News You May Have Missed: Does a vibrator’s design lead to more orgasms? Is cheating rational? Kitty Stryker is a sex worker in love. Bedsider reveals an estrogen-free vaginal ring and butt plugs reveal the popularity of Republican candidates for President.

So yesterday: Bay to Breakers, SF (I’m in the middle photo, in between the passed out couple and Beaker, with Fleur de Lis).
  • Can a better vibrator inspire more awesome sex? (TheAtlantic)
  • Does focusing on the problem of cheating distract us from the problem of monogamy? (HuffPo)
  • You can be a sex worker in love (and a very eloquent one at that). (HuffPo)
  • What’s that in between your thighs? It’s an estrogen-free vaginal ring. (Bedsider)
  • From where doth beauty come? Is it a look or an act? (TheGuardian)
  • Can the BS get over the BS? Oh boy…scouts. Lesbian cub leader fired for being gay.  (ABCNews)
  • The Republican presidential race, through the lens of the butt plug. (Vimeo)
  • This makes me think we need to have some humans spayed and neutered: After having 30 kids with 11 different women (twice he had 4 children in one year) Desmond Hatchett asks for a child-support break. (LATimes)
  • Priscilla Chan is the new Mrs. Mark Zuckerberg, but who is Priscilla Chan? (DailyMail)
  • I want to see this, but I know I won’t stop crying. Austria’s Michael Haneke’s new film “Amour” tackles the deterioration of love. (Reuters)
  • In other words, Raven Symone says my sexuality ain’t none of your dang business. (MTV)

So Last Week 129

It’s the international edition of So Last Week with a tale-o-gender-identity happy from Argentina, and a plea from the British about sex. Plus, Obama and same sex marriage, a playa case (for all safer sex sluts out there) and remembering a friend and partner in sex-positivity, Shannon Collins.

So last week: I graduated from SFSI. A lonely panda. My friend Kate‘s sculpture is up in Hayes Valley.
  • “This is truly a human right: the right to happiness.” Argentina’s new gender identity law says be the gender you want to be. (Feministing)
  • Obama’s same sex marriage stance sends conservative panties into a bunch. (WashPost)
  • Tennessee tries to ban gateway sex. (ABCNews)
  • The playa case, for those who want protection from their cell phone. (
  • RIP Shannon Collins. A senseless murder of a wonderful woman and sex positive shop owner. Support Camouflage if you can. (SantaCruzSentinel)
  • 70 year-old virgin finally ready for baum-chick-uh-baum-baum. (Dailymail)
  • More sex please, we’re British. (HuffPo)
  • 10 mistakes people make to destroy their sex lives. My favorite two, letting themselves go and devaluing or inflating the importance of sex. So true. So true. (
  • Is sexual training only a US thing? Keep spreading the love. (
  • Is masturbation boring? Try something new. (GoodVibesBlog)
  • After porn ends, a new mainstream documentary on the life of former and future “civilians.” (Xbiz)
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