Hot Sox Podcast: Em & Lo’s 150 Shades of Play


Stating the obvious: It’s been a long time since my last Hot Sox Podcast, but nothing lights a fire under my ass like a fire, or a funny, sex book on kink.

And that’s exactly how it happened (the funny sex book, not the fire).

Written by two of my favorite sex writers and the self-proclaimed “Emily Posts of the modern bedroom,” Em & Lo‘s latest book 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink had me laughing out REALLY LOUD.  So much so that I thought, I have to talk to this dynamic duo (it had been years, and many cities since we last spoke).

Em and Lo aren’t claiming that they’re all that kinky themselves, which makes the book (and the podcast) feel so much more accessible to the masses. If you’re looking for ways to explore your love…long time, you can kink it up with their suggestions from 50 Shades of Grey and beyond. It’s a great resource for people who want quick kink at the tip-o-your-fingers type list of things to try.

Learn about adult babies, rope bondage and human furniture in their latest book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink.

We talk about it all here, and now. Just in time for Valentines Day -

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Hot Sox: Healing Painful Sex

Finally, The Hot Sox podcast is back. Nancy Fish Braverman, co-author of the groundbreaking book,Healing Painful Sex: A Woman’s Guide to Confronting, Diagnosing, and Treating Sexual Pain, talks with me about the startling statistics surrounding women and genital pain. From her own journey, to the types of female sexual pain, Nancy talks about why she felt it necessary to write a book on a topic that most women, and men, know nothing about. More common than cancer, if you suffer from vaginal pain, pelvic pain, clitoral pain or discomfort, or know someone who does, you don’t want to miss this podcast.

Hot Sox: Valentines Day. Love 2011.

Love it or hate it, Valentines Day has crept up on us yet again. Whether you’re single or in a triad, Valentines Day can be anxiety producing or overly exciting, but regardless of if you want to poo-poo V-day or play it up, it is a holiday that reminds us of love.

From my hotel room in Arvada CO (that’s Arvaaada, not Arvayda) I’ve recorded this week’s Hot Sox Podcast on how we can make the best of this sometimes dreaded love-fest of a day. My best idea (if I can say so myself) is thinking of making Valentines day the new New Years of Love. But that’s not all I think of. Nope. From how to do V-day on a budget to ways to show your self love, I’ll take it out of the bedroom and into the garage to help you switch sex up a bit. Plus,  why sending a letter through the post office can be better than sex. This V-day podcast will either inspire you to get out there and love, or make you want to punch me in the face.

I report. You decide.

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Hot Sox: Gram Ponante, the Second Coming

On this week’s Hot Sox Podcast, join America’s beloved porn journalist and Fleshbot‘s Senior Erotic Consultant, Gram Ponante. We discuss loads (and not just the kind that comes out of a penis), including how to get into the business (hint: emailing Gram is only one way) to getting down to business (hint: think herding cats), and trust me, you don’t want to miss the fun I always have with America’s beloved, and I love him too, porn magnet, Gram Ponante.

Now before you listen to this week’s podcast, let’s play a quick game, shall we? It’s called “have you ever.” Have you ever slipped on “ass juice”? Have you ever worked in a hospital cleaning up the ER? Have you ever dreamed of making a sexy time version of the Facts of Life?

Even if you haven’t, Gram Ponante has. Join the man, they myth, the second coming as we talk and joke (disclaimer: not all jokes are funny) on the latest Hot Sox Podcast.


Hear here the latest Hot Sox podcast (and then some).

Read more about the Cracks of Life (The Facts of Life XXX Parody) here.


Hot Sox: Recycled Sex

can’t…make…picture…rotate…however, the latest hot sox podcast is up and it’s all about recycled sex. That’s the term I use for being all environmental and sex in a long term relationship. If you listen to the whole podcast, you’ll know more about this dress.

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Here’s the description for this week’s podcast:

When it comes to the long, and the short, of it - relationships take work. Join relationship experts Ian and Alicia Denchasy (Freddy and Eddy) as they discuss Tron, Hollywood romance and simple solutions for getting imaginative in your long-term relationship. How do these lovebirds make their 22 year old relationship flourish? From communication to action, and sexy times too, listen as this beloved couple shares wisdom, laughter and their experiences on how to have recycled sex with the Hot Sox audience.

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