I work in adult sometimes, well peripherally at this point is seems, although I do have a great 101 Positions for Lovers DVD out RIGHT NOW and you can’t find it online yet but you will soon, and if you want to buy a copy off of me, it really is fun, email me at hottwax at gmail dot com. One note though, I don’t love the box cover which is why I haven’t posted a pic of it online yet, but now that I’ve said that, I will post one soon, and it’s not offensive, just not as awesome as the movie is, so just know the cover doesn’t do the movie justice, really, it’s such a loving, loveable film and it only stars real couples, REAL couples!!! and me ..Phew. Digression done.

Anyway, I work in adult because I believe that if you want to make something better, you have to take action. And while I like what some people in this industry have done, and are doing, I find satisfaction in being part of the solution as well. Still, I often come across things like the other day for example, at my friend Abby’s house, I came across a title that was something like “Help! His Big Black Dick Accidentally Fell in My Ass!” and it’s coming across these things that makes me want to scream. Racial stereotypes are prevalent in the porn industry (something I don’t appreciate) and I detest when on a box cover it says so and so’s first interracial or anal scene. I mean, after a while if an actor or actress stays in the industry, they’re bound to have a few firsts.

So today, while reading a certain trade publication, I came across some ads that made me say OUT LOUD, AT HOME and ALONE “Really? Is this a good idea? Good advertising? Really?” I know the answers to my questions - although there is something I find really hot about the top ad - but I decided to take photos of three of these ads, so we could all laugh together. Because if we don’t laugh, I may cry.