Jan

31

Are you there Internet? It’s me Jamye….

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Hey Interwebs!

Are you out there?

I haven’t written anything on this blog in quite some time. Not since I got more than knee-deep into working on my dissertation proposal and finishing up my last years in my counseling psychology program at Santa Clara University. The good news is I’m almost an MFT and I’m getting closer to being not so ABD too.

Oh, and in between all of these things, I haz baby. Which leads me to post today. I was recently interviewed by Tristan Taormino on sex and pregnancy for Glamour magazine.

I figured why not share it here now.

Enjoy.

 

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Apr

25

So This (Last) Week 205

sex news / so last week

In this week’s very old So Last Week Month, Sex News You May Have Missed, lab grown vaginas. Is BDSM the new yoga? Meet a refrigerator dating guru and what breast milk knows about your baby.

  • Vaginas can be grown in labs. (TheGuardian)
  • Is casual sex bad for your mental health? (PsychologyToday)
  • Portraits of New Yorkers with sexual fetishes. (FeatureShoot)
  • The Atlantic explores polyamory. (TheAtlantic)
  • Is sadomasochism the new yoga? (LiveScience)
  • Not the marrying kind? Thoughts on the suffocation of marriage. (Independent.co.uk)
  • Breast milk based on baby’s gender. (IFLScience)
  • Who knew there was such a thing as a refrigerator dating guru? (TheProvince)
  • Pamela Anderson, naked again, 25 years after her first Playboy cover. (DailyMail)
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Feb

14

So Last Week 204

sex news / so last week

Happy Valentines Day. As I continue to adjust to life with baby, the schedule for Sex News You May Have Missed adjusts too. In this week’s news, hookup culture strikes twice. Japanese girls give new meaning to My Bloody Valentine. Body image liberated and what not to say to a transgender person. #solastweek

  • “People who are in consensual non-monogamous relationships use condoms more and use condoms more correctly than people who are secretly cheating on their partner.” This, and other interesting findings about hookup culture. (NYMag)
  • RIP Gloria Leonard. Pornographer and publicist. (NYT)
  • Menstrual blood, chocolate, pubic hair and love. The Japanese art of really weird gifts. (RocketNews24)
  • I don’t care if I look fat in these pictures. A liberating piece on body image. (ivillage.ca)
  • Michael Sam is the first openly gay NFL player and Texas sports anchor Dale Hansen sums up his coming out eloquently and beautifully. (People)
  • 10 things you may not have known about love and sex - although I believe it’s the four year itch and that men who understand their penis mechanics last longer in bed too.  (io9)
  • Jewish Grandma to Gay Grandson: Don’t Go Near Russia. (TabletMag)
  • Karl T. Wright and Wendy Miller a must-see marriage and an amazingly happy (and funny) couple. (LAWeekly)
  • What not to say to a Transgender person. (CNN)
  • So last year: When will it be okay for men to hook up with men, even if they’re not gay? (NYMag)
  • Releasing your inner naughty girl (cause naughty girls need love to). (atouchofflavor)
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Feb

03

So Last Week 203

sex news / so last week

And we’re back. Or, I’m back, after receiving the best New Years gift ever (hint: a baby girl, cause yep, now I’m a mom), it’s time to start posting more So Last Week: Sex News You May Have Missed. In this week’s SLW, Woody Allen and Dylan Farrow and why we will never know the truth. The economics of being poly. A math genius hacks his way through OKCupid and Muslim love.

  • Woody Allen’s good name may not be so good. (TheNewInquiry)
  • The economics of polyamory. (NPR)
  • Sex and Football. (SocialWorkHelper)
  • Posing with mannequins, a “spinster” reenacts the American Dream. (FeatureShoot)
  • Muslim men and love. A new book tackles the emotional side of sex and intimacy.  (WashingtonPost)
  • How a math genius hacked OKCupid to find true love (and then wrote a book about it). (Wired)
  • Brooklyn, NY: A snag in gay marriage when it comes to adoption. (Gothamist)
  • True love never dies, it just gets buried nearby. (People)
  • A dating website for part-time love. (DailyMail)
  • Nude yoga. Good for the body, and easy on the eyes. (Nerve)
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Dec

31

So Last Week 202

sex news / so last week

In this week’s Happy New Year, So Last Week: Sex News You May Have Missed, this year’s deaths in sex. Robin Roberts comes out. Odd “naked” people calendars for 2014 and free psychic breast readings.

  • Sexual losses 2013. (sexuality.about.com)
  • GMA’s Robin Roberts keeps it real by coming out. (Variety)
  • When it comes to sex, the pay off may be bigger if you’re elusive. (PsychologyToday)
  • My big polyamorous wedding. (xoJane)
  • Falling in love with Beyoncé. Sexuality, motherhood and liberation. (DirectLyrics)
  • Only in New York. Free psychic breast readings offers an easy way to cop a feel. (DailyDot)
  • How to orgasm from giving a blowjob. (Cosmo)
  • Pornstar Aurora Snow on her now sexless life. (TheDailyBeast)
  • 10 strange “naked” people calendars for 2014. (TheDailyEdge)
  • Love in a time of cancer. A beautiful reminder of what love is, and can be. (ZenPsychiatry)
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Dec

23

So Last Week 201

sex news / so last week

In this week’s So Last Week: Sex News You May Have Missed queerness in Syria. Pope Francis likes babies and boobies. Topless Jihads and Pussy Riot is freed.

  • Syrian’s Queer Refuges. (Medium) 
  • Topless Jihads: Inside the World’s Most Radical Feminist Movement. (TheAtlantic)
  • Pope Francis encourages mother to breast-feed in public. (Independent)
  • R. Kelly. Not so sexy, now and never. (VillageVoice)
  • Canada’s Supreme Court strikes down its anti-prostitution laws. (CBC)
  • R.I.P. Al Goldstein, porn pioneer and grumpy old screwball. (NYT)
  • Obama sends gay delegates to the Sochi Olympics. (VancouverSun)
  • Pussy Riot, freed. (USAToday)
  • Why I got my tubes tied at 27. (Salon)
  • Santa Claus is naughty and nice. At least when Santa Claus is played by sex educator Kim Airs. (ArsenioHall)
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Dec

17

So Last Week 200

sex news / so last week

In this week’s So Last Week: Sex News You May Have Missed, danger in the ring. Hot priests of the Vatican. Myths about pulling out and Beyoncé, still sexy after all these years.

  • Danger in the (nuva)ring. A must read for anyone thinking about, or on, this lethal contraceptive. (VanityFair)
  • The Vatican’s hottest priests pose for 2014. (InstinctMagazine)
  • Leaving the sex industry and losing your network. (Boinkology)
  • 5 myths about pulling out…busted. (Bedsider)
  • The top sexual health stories of 2013. (Everydayhealth)
  • The entrepreneur making condoms chic enough for women to buy. (Forbes)
  • Beyoncé: Sex, hype and the modern diva. (NeonTommy)
  • Beyoncé’s sexy album explained. (Cosmopolitan)
  • Still sexy after all these years. (CNN)
  • Surely, the craziest OK Cupid date ever. (Salon)
  • Milan removes the tree of pleasure from public view. (IBTimes)
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Dec

10

So Last Week 199

sex news / so last week

In this week’s So Last Week: Sex News You May Have Missed, the very current case around Bode Miller’s custody battle. Kate Moss gets naked. Women and promiscuity. The best and worst sex toys of 2013 and if size matters, meet the Unhung Hero.

  • Bode Miller and the scary truth about a pregnant woman’s rights. (RoleReboot)
  • Kate Moss in Playboy and def. NSFW. (TheFashionography)
  • Why women are more likely to be promiscuous. (Slate)
  • Hollywood and the C-word (that’s cunnilingus). (MsNaughty)
  • The best and worst sex toys of 2013 from the self-proclaimed pickiest sex toy reviewer…ever. (DangerousLilly)
  • The 24 hour porn site for women. (Co.Exist)
  • Unhung Hero. The latest cockumentary on penis size. (HuffPo)
  • Smarter people have more sex, do more drugs and stay up late. (EliteDaily)
  • Sexuality Videos You Should Watch, courtesy of Sunny Megatron‘s mind. (YouTube)
  • Oxford University female rugby players strip for charity. (MuscleandFitness)
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Dec

02

So Last Week 198

sex news / so last week

In this week’s So Last Week: Sex News You May Have Missed, are same-sex experiences on the rise? A performance craftavist does vaginal knitting. Even more on the upside to infidelity. World AIDS Day and Mormon women bare all.

  • The rise of girl-on-girl. (Salon)
  • Infidelity’s upside. (NationalPost)
  • Coming out as a modern family. (NYT)
  • World Aids Day and Bono. (ABCNews)
  • “Casting off my womb,” aka vaginal knitting. (ShockMansion)
  • Lead singer of the Welsh band, Lostprophets, pleads guilty to acts you wish couldn’t possibly be true. (BBC)
  • The girl with the dimple for a vagina. (DailyMail)
  • Mormon women bare all to challenge their church. (Jezebel)
  • Having kids won’t kill your marriage, but it makes divorce very hard. (TheStir)
  • Sex education in Fiji. (rnzi)
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Nov

25

So Last Week 197

sex news / so last week

In this week’s So Last Week, Sex News You May Have Missed, in defense of “rape” fantasies. Asshole licking. Why guys go to gynecologists. Plus, 10 penis facts and sexy South Korea.

  • In defense of “rape” fantasies. (Salon)
  • Can you lick my asshole? A tongue-in-cheek(s) article. Literally. (Playboy)
  • What? Why? Gynecologists can lose their licenses for treating male patients. (NYT)
  • The five parts of sex porn doesn’t prepare you for. (Cracked)
  • Are you penis savvy? 10 facts about the little guy. (TheQueerty)
  • Subjectified. A new documentary where women talk sex. (Cosmopolitan)
  • The ad that shows that girls just want to be girls who want to be well, whatever the heck they want to be. (AdWeek)
  • Jeju Loveland: The South Korea sexy park for show and tell. (Nymphobraniac)
  • Kinky craft weeks promotes more than D.I.Y. sex toys. (TheVarsity.ca)
  • Dating tips from male model Antonio Sabato Jr. (DailyTelegraph)
  • Not sex, but still sexy. If you have a hard on for Nikola Tesla (like I do) help my friend Brian make magic happen. (Indiegogo)
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