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Thursday, February 26 2009

Phone Sex: A Beginner’s Guide to Pressing Your Buttons

The phone and I.

Is this phone sex? If you have to ask..read on!

But first - we interrupt your regularly scheduled sneak peak at my article for this confession:

I’ve written a guide to phone sex for beginners for Your Tango, but the truth is I can count on one hand the amount of times I’ve had phone sex myself (I can probably even count it on less than one hand). I know it seems weird. If you’ve ever met me, you know that I’m quite the talker when it comes to socializing or even teaching a workshop, but I’ve always been quite shy about moaning and groaning over the phone. Today I’m making a promise to be shy no more when it comes to dial-up sex. Ever since I talked with Susie Bright, Amy Levine, Sindy St. James and Ellie Lumpesse, I can say, with utter confidence (but still lack of practice), that I would be really good at this phone sex thing.

So, me thinks it’s time to start pushing some buttons.

Et tu?

And here’s the beginning of my writing @ Your Tango:

It can start with a simple question like: “What are you wearing?” Other times it starts with a focus on breathing or a loving, but stern, command. And sometimes it starts with a simple “hello” and an ordinary conversation. No matter how it begins, once it’s underway you’d better hope you have unlimited minutes. If you’re having phone sex, there’s no telling how long the call will last or how hot and bothered you’ll get.

If you’re feeling even the least bit weird about spicing up your airwaves, know that a recent survey by Cosmopolitan magazine said that 85 percent of guys would like their girl to give it to them good—over the phone. But your partner’s participation isn’t the key to enjoying phone sex—you are. Alan, a phone sex enthusiast, says that after phone sex his girlfriend showered him with compliments. “She told me that she was amazed at my ability to satisfy her—when, in fact, she was satisfying herself. All I was doing was enhancing the experience.”

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