In an online world where voyeurism and exhibitionism will never go away (and in some ways it feels like what the Internet was made for), there’s always a place to go to find out what people like to do, or look like doing, when it comes to sex.
At 25 Things About my Sexuality you can read A LOT about someone else’s sex life without ever knowing anything else about them. They could be your neighbor, your mother or even the person you share your bed with (but then you may guess a few things), but the site is a place that encourages you to let it out, without having to out yourself.
I’m an outer though, so I decided to be more open, and although I think 25 things is too much to reveal at once, here are a 10 things about my sexuality/sex life that you may or may not know.
1. I didn’t have my first orgasm til I was 21. I thought I knew what an orgasm was before then, but once I had one, I knew I had never known.
2. I started kissing other children when I was barely in my double digits. All I knew was that it felt good to kiss.
3. I am way more submissive in bed if you’re cool with that. But I like being dominant too. It just doesn’t come as naturally in my sex life as it does in the other parts of my life.
4. My first vibrator was a Slimline. Mail ordered in a catalog that arrived in brown paper wrapping. Even though I ordered it in Ohio, when I moved back to New York, the catalog somehow followed me to my parent’s house, where it was quickly discovered by my mother.
5. I masturbated on video and it wasn’t for personal use.
6. I have faked it before, but I’ve vowed not to fake it again.
7. I was turned on by a rape scene in a movie when I was in 4th grade.
8. In high school I once had to hide in my boyfriend’s bathtub when his mother came home unexpectedly on a day we were both off from school. I was naked and locked in the room for over an hour. He then snuck me in his basement, while his mom was in her room. It took her another hour to get out of the house.
9. The longest time I’ve spent in bed with someone was 48 hours. We got up to snack and use the bathroom. Otherwise, we got off.
10. As a teenager, I wanted to be a Playboy centerfold. Thinking that might not happen, I instead enjoyed looking at the pictures and reading about their interests and aspirations.