March 19, 2021

A different type of casting call

Crotch shot.

On, Tuesday night - I'm co hosting the Derek and Romaine show on Sirius Sattelite Radio from 7PM - 10PM. Tune in and call in too!

I’m soon to be writing an article for a major woman’s magazine – one that you can buy in places like Whole Foods - and I'm looking for FIVE real couples to talk with me about your sex lives. What we really want is to get you to try something new, in order to revitalize, remake or expand your sexual repetoire.

Perhaps you’ve had a sexual goal, something you’ve been looking to accomplish for a while and you want to try it out. Or you’ve always wanted to unleash a sexual fantasy, and now you have permission to reveal it. Maybe you want to work on something in the relationship and think that doing a new activity can help.

Here’s how it will go down. It’s best if you live in or around New York. You’ll send me a picture and a possible idea of what you want to do and why. If selected, you’ll actually try out this sex thing and then you’ll tell me all about it. We’ll have a panel of three sex experts (two therapists, one educator) who will discuss what you’ve done and the end results. Then you’ll get a nice photo shoot, courtesy of the magazine, and your picture and story will appear together in an upcoming issue.

Here are some ideas to help get you started (but I encourage new ideas too):

Good Couples Porn
There's plenty of porn out there, but not plenty of porn out there that you want to watch. From shoes to orgasms, women can tell the fake from the real, and we know when the shoes are as cheap as the sex is. One couple will take the plunge for the rest of humanity. Given three "couples friendly" videos, they'll tell us which ones are worth the watch, and which ones aren't. Which couples videos will pass the eyegasm test?

The Liberator Shapes
The ads are everywhere for the blue, firm, yet bulky sex apparatus that's supposed to change the shape of sex, but do they work? One couple will test out the ramp and wedge combo, and let us know if and liberator shapes changed their position on sex.

Make your own movie or Taking dirty pictures
Ever thought about making your own erotic movie/posing for dirty pictures? Can't be too hard, can it? One couple takes the plunge and gets naked for their own camera. They'll tell us what goes right, and what goes wrong.

Sex creams
If you're not going to cream your pants naturally, is their a sex cream out there that will do it for you? One adventurous couple will try out two-three vaginal/clitoral sex creams on the market, and let us know, does it do more than make you wet?

Sex in Public
Sex in public, but not too public a space. You choose the place, or we can come up with suggestions too, and go for it. Are you in your own backyard, or a large open field? How does sex in public feel? You’ll tell us about the liberation and the anxiety, and anything in between.

Email me at if you want to get involved!

Posted by jamye at March 19, 2021 07:12 PM