So Last Week 170

In this week’s sex news you may have missed, I go celebrity (Angelina Jolie, Rod Stewart, Bea Arthur). Plus, What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire. The smallest penis in Brooklyn contest and ladyflower respect. It’s all So Last Week.

  • Surprising! Secrets! of! Female! Sexuality! (NYPost) Buy: What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire
  • Banks think porn star money is too dirty for their pristine institutions. (NBC)
  • Angelina Jolie’s double mastectomy message. (CNN)
  • This sh-t is scary: Gay man shot dead on Greenwich Village street. (NYPost)
  • Teeny weenie peenies’ encouraged to show them off at Brooklyn bar contest. (Gothamist)
  • Army Sexual Assault Prevention Office Coordinator accused of Abusive Sexual Contact. (HuffPo)
  • Respect the ladyflower! What to do if your boyfriend thinks your vagina is repulsive. (Jezebel)
  • Rod Stewart blames steroids for his shrunken penis. (GlobalNews)
  • Bea Arthur nude and for sale. (DailyBeast)
  • Crystal Hefner’s parents love that she’s married to a man three times her age. (People)

50 Reasons to Masturbate

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We’re full swing into Masturbation May, and as a self-love enthusiast, and the author of Getting Off: A Woman’s Guide to Masturbation, I present you with 50 reasons to rub the nub, beat the meat, polish the pearl or spank the monkey.

  1. If you can’t love yourself, how can you love anybody else? And how can anybody else know how to love you?
  2. Once you know what turns you on, you can show others how to do it too.
  3. “Masturbation is sex with someone you love.” – Woody Allen
  4. One of the best dances is the rock around the clit. The most popular spots are 2 and 10:00.
  5. Masturbation is fun.
  6. Masturbating before sex can help him last longer during intercourse.
  7. Masturbation releases oxytocin and this makes you sleepy. If you’re trying to fall asleep, that’s a good thing.
  8. Endorphins! Endorphins! Endorphins! Just saying it makes me feel good.
  9. Masturbation is cheaper than 18 years of child support, meaning nobody gets pregnant.
  10. A first orgasm makes it easier to have more orgasms!

Read the rest of the reasons at my Lovers blog.

So Last Week 169

In this week’s sex news and I found Felt (the TV show that does sex therapy with puppets)! Plus, sexism and the murderess. Elizabeth (way) Smart. “The ex” and International Clitoris Week. It’s all So Last Week.

  • Sexism and the single murderess. (NYT)
  • Elizabeth Smart talks about the harmful messages of abstinence-only eduction. (ThinkProgress)
  • The curse of reparative therapy. (HuffPo)
  • Female purity is bull crap. (Jezebel)
  • So last month: Stoya – America’s Sweetheart of Smut. (VillageVoice)
  • So Horrific: NRA vendor sells “the ex,” an ex girlfriend target that bleeds when you shoot it. (Policymic)
  • Low dose birth control pills may make orgasms feel more like ouch-gasms. (Gothamist)
  • Nine parenting lessons you can learn from the Farrah Abrahams/James Deen sex tape. (Gawker)
  • How did you celebrate international clitoris awareness week? (TheGloss)
  • Threatening dildo makes man angry. (DangerousMinds)
  • Why does this make me feel icky? Meet the Orgasmatron. (ieet)

Mother F*&kers

With tomorrow being Mother’s Day, here’s a reminder that not all mothers want a good pampering, some want a good pounding!

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This Sunday you get to show your lover that she’s the best! mom! ever! Whether she’s the mother of your children, or the mother of a cat, dog or pet turtle, it’s her partner’s responsibility to make her feel appreciated. So, what can you do for your hot baby mama?

There are lots of sexy ways to celebrate the mother of your children, or, as a single mother, there are a myriad of ways you can celebrate yourself (it is Masturbation May after all). And yes, these are very different than the ways you will celebrate your mother – we’ll leave it to your dad to read this and figure out that sex stuff. That being said, not all mothers want pampering, some want a good pounding. Maybe she wants both, but when it comes to the good pounding, remember that mothers spend a lot of time using their bodies to lift children, pick up toys, clean, cook and break up fights. So, even during a good pounding, it’s important that she be relaxed and comfortable. While woman on top gives a lady a sense of control, pounding her on Mother’s Day is about letting her lose control…read more

 

Female Ejaculation

“Whether you’ve seen it in porn, or heard about it from friends, or maybe because she’s like what-the-heck-just happened to my body, I swear I didn’t mean to pee on the bed, female ejaculation is one of those sex topics that people all over the interwebs are often gushing about (and one of the most popular questions I get at AskJamye). Whether it’s because she can’t understand how it happens, because he’s trying to figure why, or because she’s trying to determine if it really is an orgasm, when it comes to those of us curious about sex, we are often intrigued, excited, or embarrassed by squirting.”

Continue reading Female Ejaculation. What You Should Know.

Click here to watch my Love Sex video on Female Ejaculation.

 

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